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2011年10月6日木曜日
2011年1月2日日曜日
Happy New Year !!
Happy New Year !!
Hope you having a wonderful time....
Have you made your new year resolution ?
You can make your plan to your goals anytime actually,
but if you never do it, new year is the good time to
think about your successful goals.
Here is some tips how to make a resolution.
1. Be realistic by setting achievable goals.
Winning the lottery, for example, is out of your grasp.
2. Describe your resolutions in specific terms.
Instead of "I don't want to be lazy," opt for "I want to exercise regularly"
or "I will cut down on my television watching."
3. Break down large into smaller ones.
4. Above all, aim for things that are truly important to you, not what you
ought to do or what others expect of you.
After that, write it down and keep it on your eyes all the times, like putting on the wall
or taking it with your diary.
Let's create your great story together !!
PS: appology for rest for loooong time.
2010年1月5日火曜日
Make your wish
Have you already made your wish of this year ?
Once you decide them, keep them on your eyes all of the times,
e.g., putting the paper on the wall in your room, writing them in the
first page of your diary...
As much as you think about your wishes, they come in reality sooner.
2010年1月1日金曜日
Happy New Year !
Happy New Year !
I went to see the count down fireworks at Bayswter with my partner and friends.
Tonight is blue moon. (full moon comes twice in one month. and I saw the article
it's very rare day second full moon comes in new year day.)
Then I went to see the sunrising as well !
Wishing make all of you be happy and dreams come true !
2009年12月25日金曜日
Merry Christmas !
Merry christmas to all of you !
I am back in Japan for 1 week.
I haven't come back in winter for 2 years ,
I totally forgot how cold it is in Japan...
I enjoyed the beautiful illuminations.
For me, christmas = winter, cold, white christmas, beautiful illuminations.
For New Zealand, Australia, some tropical countries,
xmas = summer, hot, BBQ party at beach...
Everyone has the different common sense...
What is the common sense ?
Does it exist ?
2009年12月19日土曜日
If only 2
(Continue)
We are loosing our minds in our busy dairy life and
forgetting what the important things are, what you desire to do.
There is a easy way to find them !
You imagine the last period of your life.
You might lay down the bed and your family look at your last moment.
You feel very happy and satisfied with your life.
Then think
if you can relive to the another life from 20s, 30s, what do you want to do ?
That is your true demand.
As we just forget about it,
just remember what you want to do and try it !
2009年12月14日月曜日
If only...
I watched the movie “If only” on TV last Saturday.
The content is
His girlfriend, Samantha died in an accident shortly after they had a fight.
He, Ian, thought “If only I had told her how much I loved her.
If only we could live together forever…”
He got a chance to relive the day all over again and he spent the day with her
as much as possible and told her how important she was for him.
I don’t like the ending, but they gave me the important message.
That is;
What is the most important thing/person for you ?
Carrier ?
Family ?
Lover ?
Do you pay enough attention for them ?
Don’t you think everybody understand you unless you don’t say anything
and don’t pay any attention ?
It’s too late to regret “if only…” after loosing your important things/persons.
You can avoid this situation !! How ?
(continue…)
The content is
His girlfriend, Samantha died in an accident shortly after they had a fight.
He, Ian, thought “If only I had told her how much I loved her.
If only we could live together forever…”
He got a chance to relive the day all over again and he spent the day with her
as much as possible and told her how important she was for him.
I don’t like the ending, but they gave me the important message.
That is;
What is the most important thing/person for you ?
Carrier ?
Family ?
Lover ?
Do you pay enough attention for them ?
Don’t you think everybody understand you unless you don’t say anything
and don’t pay any attention ?
It’s too late to regret “if only…” after loosing your important things/persons.
You can avoid this situation !! How ?
(continue…)
2009年11月30日月曜日
find out your similar patterns !
My friend asked me the interesting question during driving.
“Why do I like to change the line frequently ?
Do you analyze my physiological pattern ?”
He likes to change to another line if his line is getting crowd.
After that, he thinks another line is faster and changes the line again and again…
Although the traveling time is not much different, his stress is bigger and bigger.
From this point of view, I analyze
He likes to jump at the immediate profit.
Indecisive person
Adventurous person
All thinking patterns come to see the many life scenes as the similar patterns.
For him, I can see his attitude for his job.
You should look around the whole picture, not the part.
You had better to decide one thing, not try to do many things at the same time.
You can achieve the good result.
In this way, if we analyze our usual life, we can understand our thinking patterns.
If you are interested in, please free to contact me ! ( I help to analyze your pattern.)
“Why do I like to change the line frequently ?
Do you analyze my physiological pattern ?”
He likes to change to another line if his line is getting crowd.
After that, he thinks another line is faster and changes the line again and again…
Although the traveling time is not much different, his stress is bigger and bigger.
From this point of view, I analyze
He likes to jump at the immediate profit.
Indecisive person
Adventurous person
All thinking patterns come to see the many life scenes as the similar patterns.
For him, I can see his attitude for his job.
You should look around the whole picture, not the part.
You had better to decide one thing, not try to do many things at the same time.
You can achieve the good result.
In this way, if we analyze our usual life, we can understand our thinking patterns.
If you are interested in, please free to contact me ! ( I help to analyze your pattern.)
2009年11月25日水曜日
Make your life with not passive but active!
Aren't you waiting for something given by someone and complaining about them ?
"A doesn't do it for me !!"
"It is not the thing I want !!"
Nobody knows when you can get them.
Even if you get them, you never be satisfied with your demanding.
That is endless...
Soooo....
How about to get them by yourself !?
It is stress free...
No one make you frustrated any more...
And you can get anything you want.
This way is better than other way (you complain all the times), isn't it ?
You might get more and bigger things.
You also feel plenty of satisfaction.
Make your life with not passive but active!
Don't wait ! Go ahead and grab it !
"A doesn't do it for me !!"
"It is not the thing I want !!"
Nobody knows when you can get them.
Even if you get them, you never be satisfied with your demanding.
That is endless...
Soooo....
How about to get them by yourself !?
It is stress free...
No one make you frustrated any more...
And you can get anything you want.
This way is better than other way (you complain all the times), isn't it ?
You might get more and bigger things.
You also feel plenty of satisfaction.
Make your life with not passive but active!
Don't wait ! Go ahead and grab it !
2009年9月22日火曜日
You could → You can
When you challenge a new thing, you sometimes can't take an action with fears and worries.
At that time, let’s remember your memories “You could” in your childhood.
When you could ride the bike at the first time
When you could swim 25m
When you could go shopping alone.
etc….
There are a lot of things you could do alone after you made efforts.
Remember them.
Then, image your little child (below 6 years old) and say to her/him.
“Well done! You could do it by yourself. You made it because you never
gave up even if you failed many times. Really good job!”
Yes, you know it.
You can do it (reach your goal) with your big effort.
Image your many “you could” and let your brain remember the memories back.
Then, your power “you can” is increasing.
Now, it’s your turn to challenge the new thing.
No worries, you can do it because you could do it in your childhood.
At that time, let’s remember your memories “You could” in your childhood.
When you could ride the bike at the first time
When you could swim 25m
When you could go shopping alone.
etc….
There are a lot of things you could do alone after you made efforts.
Remember them.
Then, image your little child (below 6 years old) and say to her/him.
“Well done! You could do it by yourself. You made it because you never
gave up even if you failed many times. Really good job!”
Yes, you know it.
You can do it (reach your goal) with your big effort.
Image your many “you could” and let your brain remember the memories back.
Then, your power “you can” is increasing.
Now, it’s your turn to challenge the new thing.
No worries, you can do it because you could do it in your childhood.
2009年9月17日木曜日
Where is the peak ?
I sometimes watch the TV program of Chef Gordon Ramsay
who is very famous chef in the world.
He does the cooking competition with the guest on this TV.
One time competition, win or lose…
He’s supposed to win the competition because of the famous chef, but he sometimes lost it.
And he felt deeply vexed.
I thought it was important to have an aspiration at any time even if he became famous.
If I think I reach the top of my profession, My growing is stopped at that stage.
However, does the peak really exist?
There is a path over the peak which I thought.
People can grow up with no limit.
It depends on ourselves.
Thinking “more and more” or “it’s enough”
Let’s create our own world by ourselves!
who is very famous chef in the world.
He does the cooking competition with the guest on this TV.
One time competition, win or lose…
He’s supposed to win the competition because of the famous chef, but he sometimes lost it.
And he felt deeply vexed.
I thought it was important to have an aspiration at any time even if he became famous.
If I think I reach the top of my profession, My growing is stopped at that stage.
However, does the peak really exist?
There is a path over the peak which I thought.
People can grow up with no limit.
It depends on ourselves.
Thinking “more and more” or “it’s enough”
Let’s create our own world by ourselves!
2009年9月15日火曜日
Recharge
Spring is coming in New Zealand !!
We can see the cherry blossoms around here now.
I raise the special feeling when I see the cherry blossoms because of Japanese...
As the weather is also getting suitable, like warm and lovely sunny day most of the times,
I often have breakfast and afternoon tea in the garden.
While I see the plum tree with the flesh green leaves and hear the birds’ twitter…
The nature energy makes my energy recharge !!
Nature growing = My growing
We can see the cherry blossoms around here now.
I raise the special feeling when I see the cherry blossoms because of Japanese...
As the weather is also getting suitable, like warm and lovely sunny day most of the times,
I often have breakfast and afternoon tea in the garden.
While I see the plum tree with the flesh green leaves and hear the birds’ twitter…
The nature energy makes my energy recharge !!
Nature growing = My growing
2009年9月3日木曜日
Weak point is strong point
We normally think the weak point is bad habit, but
the weak point is strong point.
Selfish ⇔ Self- assertion
Stubborn ⇔ To have Strong will
Dishonest, Shifty ⇔ Smart, Sharp brain
Jealous ⇔ To notice people’s strong point
Show of oneself ⇔ To have pride
If we keep doing with thinking it is good, this sometimes turns over to what
People think it is bad point.
If you are pointed out by someone like that, you may consider and balance it.
People's opinion is good barometer to keep balance for you!
the weak point is strong point.
Selfish ⇔ Self- assertion
Stubborn ⇔ To have Strong will
Dishonest, Shifty ⇔ Smart, Sharp brain
Jealous ⇔ To notice people’s strong point
Show of oneself ⇔ To have pride
If we keep doing with thinking it is good, this sometimes turns over to what
People think it is bad point.
If you are pointed out by someone like that, you may consider and balance it.
People's opinion is good barometer to keep balance for you!
2009年8月25日火曜日
Successful person
Ｉ have many chances to see the people who succeed for their businesses.
Their attitude toward business in common is
“They always do their best ways. “
“They never give up.”
“They always have ambitions.”
For me…
“Do not do my best by considering the result.
“Easy to give up.”
“Keeping the current situation.”
With the above my mind, I don’t get a big success.
Therefore, I make up my mind to change myself
in order to get the big dream !
Until now, I get everything without any efforts.
However, to get them easily means that I get a small achievement.
What I want is to get the big achievement, not small.
So, I never give up and build up my efforts so that my dream comes true!
People surrounding me are very attractive.
They are my future status. I’m going to catch up them!
Their attitude toward business in common is
“They always do their best ways. “
“They never give up.”
“They always have ambitions.”
For me…
“Do not do my best by considering the result.
“Easy to give up.”
“Keeping the current situation.”
With the above my mind, I don’t get a big success.
Therefore, I make up my mind to change myself
in order to get the big dream !
Until now, I get everything without any efforts.
However, to get them easily means that I get a small achievement.
What I want is to get the big achievement, not small.
So, I never give up and build up my efforts so that my dream comes true!
People surrounding me are very attractive.
They are my future status. I’m going to catch up them!
2009年8月21日金曜日
Heart-warming
When I was on the bus yesterday, the driver suddenly asked
“Turning right here? Or left?”
As he is the new driver, he seems not to know the bus rout well…
Then, many customers told him
“Turing right”
“You are doing well !”
“Don’t worry !”
They gave him some words as well when they got off from the bus.
It made me heartwarming
We sometimes don’t get any clue by ourselves.
At that time, it’s good way to get some advices from people about you.
People around you are you.
If you reply on them, it means you rely on yourself.
But, don’t rely on too much !
It causes to lose you and uncontrol yourself.
“Turning right here? Or left?”
As he is the new driver, he seems not to know the bus rout well…
Then, many customers told him
“Turing right”
“You are doing well !”
“Don’t worry !”
They gave him some words as well when they got off from the bus.
It made me heartwarming
We sometimes don’t get any clue by ourselves.
At that time, it’s good way to get some advices from people about you.
People around you are you.
If you reply on them, it means you rely on yourself.
But, don’t rely on too much !
It causes to lose you and uncontrol yourself.
2009年8月19日水曜日
Energy
Energy is limited.
It is totally 100%.
With view of time, one day has 24 hours and one year has 365 days…
People who are successful for business spend the most part of their energies. (almost 100%)
People who want to get both business success and pleasure don’t make it soon
because they are not focusing for one thing.
Even if they are going to do, they get some success.(business 60%, Pleasure40%)
How percentages do you divide each category in your life?
Are you satisfied with it or not ?
What kind of your life do you want?
To come to the reality, do you need to change the balance of energy?
To increase the amount of energy is to increase the amount of your thought and actions.
How much do you become serious with limited times.
It depends on you !!
It is totally 100%.
With view of time, one day has 24 hours and one year has 365 days…
People who are successful for business spend the most part of their energies. (almost 100%)
People who want to get both business success and pleasure don’t make it soon
because they are not focusing for one thing.
Even if they are going to do, they get some success.(business 60%, Pleasure40%)
How percentages do you divide each category in your life?
Are you satisfied with it or not ?
What kind of your life do you want?
To come to the reality, do you need to change the balance of energy?
To increase the amount of energy is to increase the amount of your thought and actions.
How much do you become serious with limited times.
It depends on you !!
2009年8月17日月曜日
Thoughts x Actiions = Dreams come true !
To say “Our thoughts come to reality”,
Someone misunderstand “Dreams come true with only thoughts.”
Unfortunately, there is no story like a dream…
We need to take actions altogether with thoughts.
How long it takes dreams come true depends on
How much one thinks and take actions.
When we think a lot, we want to take actions.
But, we sometimes are facing with the difficulties.
At that time, if you give up…
Your dream off course will not come true.
You should think a lot again and take actions!
Then you’re going to reach your goals.
Are you disappointed for the normal process?
But, you haven’t tried it yet, have you!?
Try it first !!
Someone misunderstand “Dreams come true with only thoughts.”
Unfortunately, there is no story like a dream…
We need to take actions altogether with thoughts.
How long it takes dreams come true depends on
How much one thinks and take actions.
When we think a lot, we want to take actions.
But, we sometimes are facing with the difficulties.
At that time, if you give up…
Your dream off course will not come true.
You should think a lot again and take actions!
Then you’re going to reach your goals.
Are you disappointed for the normal process?
But, you haven’t tried it yet, have you!?
Try it first !!
2009年8月12日水曜日
Am I right ?
Someone say
" Did I take a wrong decision ? what should I do ?"
" Everything should be correct because you choose what you want to do..."
Accoring to TAW, you create your world and choose the best choice
whenever you do.
You might want to say
It is decided by my parents, teachers, friends and I just follow their decisions...
You use them to decide what to do with some reasons...
Because not to take any resposible about this decision.
Because to feel comfortable to follow it.
Our thoughts has been made befor 6 years old child.
When we experienced some events, we larned how to treat them.
Then if we did it succesfuly, we thought it was good way and
creat our pattern of thinking.
That means, if we analyze how to creat our thought,
we understand how we choose the best way and
we create our world by ourselves !
" Did I take a wrong decision ? what should I do ?"
" Everything should be correct because you choose what you want to do..."
Accoring to TAW, you create your world and choose the best choice
whenever you do.
You might want to say
It is decided by my parents, teachers, friends and I just follow their decisions...
You use them to decide what to do with some reasons...
Because not to take any resposible about this decision.
Because to feel comfortable to follow it.
Our thoughts has been made befor 6 years old child.
When we experienced some events, we larned how to treat them.
Then if we did it succesfuly, we thought it was good way and
creat our pattern of thinking.
That means, if we analyze how to creat our thought,
we understand how we choose the best way and
we create our world by ourselves !
2009年8月9日日曜日
Egg first? Chicken first?
Which came first? Chicken or Egg?
According to TAW, it says chicken first!!
That means we came first before parents.
????
We are born from our parents and they exist before we are in this world…
A bit confusing…
On the Physical point of view, that is true, but by considering to our mind,
Our mind came first!
Yes, we chose our own parents and sibling’s condition. (eldest or middle or youngest or one )
Eldest demands status, monoy (physical things)
middle demands freedome
Youngest demands protection, human loves
As it is the original demand, we can change our demand anytime.
(But can get it one by one, not all together...)
What did you want originally ?
What do you want now?
According to TAW, it says chicken first!!
That means we came first before parents.
????
We are born from our parents and they exist before we are in this world…
A bit confusing…
On the Physical point of view, that is true, but by considering to our mind,
Our mind came first!
Yes, we chose our own parents and sibling’s condition. (eldest or middle or youngest or one )
Eldest demands status, monoy (physical things)
middle demands freedome
Youngest demands protection, human loves
As it is the original demand, we can change our demand anytime.
(But can get it one by one, not all together...)
What did you want originally ?
What do you want now?
2009年7月29日水曜日
Two girls
Two girls are stuck in my mind.
M who takes an action whenever she wants.
Y who doesn’t have her opinion and follow her way.
They have known each other for 10 years.
I’m very impressed they play their roles and keep good relation ship…
Y is stuck in my mind.
When M says to want to do something, Y always agree with her.
I want to say to Y.
“Do you really want to do that? What is your opinion?
What do you want to do indeed? “
She came cross to me as playing “good person”.
Y is me…
I expected to be judged by everyone “I am good person” and didn’t want to be refused.
I have done whatever everyone wants and never said “no”.
But I felt lonely and didn’t get my satisfaction.
They supposed to think of me
“They didn’t understand what I thought, what I desired, etc.”
That’s why they went to share their problems to others, not me…
If I don’t reveal my real intension, they off course don’t do it, neither.
That means I just get the surface friends.
I have done meaningless.
I quit to play “good people” and reveal my real intension !!
M who takes an action whenever she wants.
Y who doesn’t have her opinion and follow her way.
They have known each other for 10 years.
I’m very impressed they play their roles and keep good relation ship…
Y is stuck in my mind.
When M says to want to do something, Y always agree with her.
I want to say to Y.
“Do you really want to do that? What is your opinion?
What do you want to do indeed? “
She came cross to me as playing “good person”.
Y is me…
I expected to be judged by everyone “I am good person” and didn’t want to be refused.
I have done whatever everyone wants and never said “no”.
But I felt lonely and didn’t get my satisfaction.
They supposed to think of me
“They didn’t understand what I thought, what I desired, etc.”
That’s why they went to share their problems to others, not me…
If I don’t reveal my real intension, they off course don’t do it, neither.
That means I just get the surface friends.
I have done meaningless.
I quit to play “good people” and reveal my real intension !!
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