I watched the movie “If only” on TV last Saturday.
The content is
His girlfriend, Samantha died in an accident shortly after they had a fight.
He, Ian, thought “If only I had told her how much I loved her.
If only we could live together forever…”
He got a chance to relive the day all over again and he spent the day with her
as much as possible and told her how important she was for him.
I don’t like the ending, but they gave me the important message.
That is;
What is the most important thing/person for you ?
Carrier ?
Family ?
Lover ?
Do you pay enough attention for them ?
Don’t you think everybody understand you unless you don’t say anything
and don’t pay any attention ?
It’s too late to regret “if only…” after loosing your important things/persons.
You can avoid this situation !! How ?
(continue…)
2009年12月14日月曜日
2009年11月30日月曜日
find out your similar patterns !
My friend asked me the interesting question during driving.
“Why do I like to change the line frequently ?
Do you analyze my physiological pattern ?”
He likes to change to another line if his line is getting crowd.
After that, he thinks another line is faster and changes the line again and again…
Although the traveling time is not much different, his stress is bigger and bigger.
From this point of view, I analyze
He likes to jump at the immediate profit.
Indecisive person
Adventurous person
All thinking patterns come to see the many life scenes as the similar patterns.
For him, I can see his attitude for his job.
You should look around the whole picture, not the part.
You had better to decide one thing, not try to do many things at the same time.
You can achieve the good result.
In this way, if we analyze our usual life, we can understand our thinking patterns.
If you are interested in, please free to contact me ! ( I help to analyze your pattern.)
“Why do I like to change the line frequently ?
Do you analyze my physiological pattern ?”
He likes to change to another line if his line is getting crowd.
After that, he thinks another line is faster and changes the line again and again…
Although the traveling time is not much different, his stress is bigger and bigger.
From this point of view, I analyze
He likes to jump at the immediate profit.
Indecisive person
Adventurous person
All thinking patterns come to see the many life scenes as the similar patterns.
For him, I can see his attitude for his job.
You should look around the whole picture, not the part.
You had better to decide one thing, not try to do many things at the same time.
You can achieve the good result.
In this way, if we analyze our usual life, we can understand our thinking patterns.
If you are interested in, please free to contact me ! ( I help to analyze your pattern.)
2009年11月25日水曜日
Make your life with not passive but active!
Aren't you waiting for something given by someone and complaining about them ?
"A doesn't do it for me !!"
"It is not the thing I want !!"
Nobody knows when you can get them.
Even if you get them, you never be satisfied with your demanding.
That is endless...
Soooo....
How about to get them by yourself !?
It is stress free...
No one make you frustrated any more...
And you can get anything you want.
This way is better than other way (you complain all the times), isn't it ?
You might get more and bigger things.
You also feel plenty of satisfaction.
Make your life with not passive but active!
Don't wait ! Go ahead and grab it !
"A doesn't do it for me !!"
"It is not the thing I want !!"
Nobody knows when you can get them.
Even if you get them, you never be satisfied with your demanding.
That is endless...
Soooo....
How about to get them by yourself !?
It is stress free...
No one make you frustrated any more...
And you can get anything you want.
This way is better than other way (you complain all the times), isn't it ?
You might get more and bigger things.
You also feel plenty of satisfaction.
Make your life with not passive but active!
Don't wait ! Go ahead and grab it !
2009年9月22日火曜日
You could → You can
When you challenge a new thing, you sometimes can't take an action with fears and worries.
At that time, let’s remember your memories “You could” in your childhood.
When you could ride the bike at the first time
When you could swim 25m
When you could go shopping alone.
etc….
There are a lot of things you could do alone after you made efforts.
Remember them.
Then, image your little child (below 6 years old) and say to her/him.
“Well done! You could do it by yourself. You made it because you never
gave up even if you failed many times. Really good job!”
Yes, you know it.
You can do it (reach your goal) with your big effort.
Image your many “you could” and let your brain remember the memories back.
Then, your power “you can” is increasing.
Now, it’s your turn to challenge the new thing.
No worries, you can do it because you could do it in your childhood.
At that time, let’s remember your memories “You could” in your childhood.
When you could ride the bike at the first time
When you could swim 25m
When you could go shopping alone.
etc….
There are a lot of things you could do alone after you made efforts.
Remember them.
Then, image your little child (below 6 years old) and say to her/him.
“Well done! You could do it by yourself. You made it because you never
gave up even if you failed many times. Really good job!”
Yes, you know it.
You can do it (reach your goal) with your big effort.
Image your many “you could” and let your brain remember the memories back.
Then, your power “you can” is increasing.
Now, it’s your turn to challenge the new thing.
No worries, you can do it because you could do it in your childhood.
2009年9月17日木曜日
Where is the peak ?
I sometimes watch the TV program of Chef Gordon Ramsay
who is very famous chef in the world.
He does the cooking competition with the guest on this TV.
One time competition, win or lose…
He’s supposed to win the competition because of the famous chef, but he sometimes lost it.
And he felt deeply vexed.
I thought it was important to have an aspiration at any time even if he became famous.
If I think I reach the top of my profession, My growing is stopped at that stage.
However, does the peak really exist?
There is a path over the peak which I thought.
People can grow up with no limit.
It depends on ourselves.
Thinking “more and more” or “it’s enough”
Let’s create our own world by ourselves!
who is very famous chef in the world.
He does the cooking competition with the guest on this TV.
One time competition, win or lose…
He’s supposed to win the competition because of the famous chef, but he sometimes lost it.
And he felt deeply vexed.
I thought it was important to have an aspiration at any time even if he became famous.
If I think I reach the top of my profession, My growing is stopped at that stage.
However, does the peak really exist?
There is a path over the peak which I thought.
People can grow up with no limit.
It depends on ourselves.
Thinking “more and more” or “it’s enough”
Let’s create our own world by ourselves!
2009年9月15日火曜日
Recharge
Spring is coming in New Zealand !!
We can see the cherry blossoms around here now.
I raise the special feeling when I see the cherry blossoms because of Japanese...
As the weather is also getting suitable, like warm and lovely sunny day most of the times,
I often have breakfast and afternoon tea in the garden.
While I see the plum tree with the flesh green leaves and hear the birds’ twitter…
The nature energy makes my energy recharge !!
Nature growing = My growing
We can see the cherry blossoms around here now.
I raise the special feeling when I see the cherry blossoms because of Japanese...
As the weather is also getting suitable, like warm and lovely sunny day most of the times,
I often have breakfast and afternoon tea in the garden.
While I see the plum tree with the flesh green leaves and hear the birds’ twitter…
The nature energy makes my energy recharge !!
Nature growing = My growing
2009年9月3日木曜日
Weak point is strong point
We normally think the weak point is bad habit, but
the weak point is strong point.
Selfish ⇔ Self- assertion
Stubborn ⇔ To have Strong will
Dishonest, Shifty ⇔ Smart, Sharp brain
Jealous ⇔ To notice people’s strong point
Show of oneself ⇔ To have pride
If we keep doing with thinking it is good, this sometimes turns over to what
People think it is bad point.
If you are pointed out by someone like that, you may consider and balance it.
People's opinion is good barometer to keep balance for you!
the weak point is strong point.
Selfish ⇔ Self- assertion
Stubborn ⇔ To have Strong will
Dishonest, Shifty ⇔ Smart, Sharp brain
Jealous ⇔ To notice people’s strong point
Show of oneself ⇔ To have pride
If we keep doing with thinking it is good, this sometimes turns over to what
People think it is bad point.
If you are pointed out by someone like that, you may consider and balance it.
People's opinion is good barometer to keep balance for you!
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